Few days ago … i’ve been in a scene … as a simple spectator … and had the chance to understand the power of the tremendous power of sexual energy.
We were 3 men … and a very beautiful lady, that was arranging the tables at the coffee shop.
One of the guy was the lover of that lady … and the other one … a guest that came there with the family to enjoy a cake and a coffee.
The 3 of us … knew each other … by a long time … and stayed together only 2 … maximum 3 minutes … just to say and change few words.
But what was funny … and this is why i bother to write about such a scene … is that Tim, the guy that was there with his family … keep staring at the beautiful lady that was arranging the place.
He could not control anymore … his eyes.
He was staring like a 5 years old kid … but being an adult …. he was indeed dominated by her sexual energy.
She had indeed a very beautiful body.
… i could even say … a gorgeous lady.
All men around … were admiring her … but my friend … simple lost control on himself … even if her lover was only 1 meter away.
I was looking into the same time … at all of them … and …
The funny thing is that the loser was so wise … that only … smiled.
He was looking at our friend … that was starring to his girlfriend … and realized … the guy is just an idiot … and nothing more.
Soon … wife came and asked him to leave.
I look at the lover and ask … “It looks like you are not a jealous man. Anyone would probably just … make here a jealousy crisis … but not you …”
He smile … ironically … replying … “Well …. all men are starring at her. In the beginning… even if i don’t suffer of jealousy… i became annoyed.
Her sexual energy … is at a very high level.
Men are admiring her … and all women are starring at her.
Her sexual magnetism dominates any scene of life when we are together.
I can’t change her focus … from sexuality.
It’s probably a normal need … for having daily clear confirmations.
Or at least this is what i think.
Her sexuality … gives glamour to our relationship … but also all those sexual channels … remained opened … and attracting with her magnetism everyone around … just ruin the beauty of our connection.
I could ask her to change.
… to resoft herself … but i find it ridiculous.
Her sexual energy … that dominates all the scenes of life … where she appears … has a tremendous impact.
And … she loves that.
She loves having … magnetism.
Probably a normal man … would lose his mind … seeing this happening everyday.
It’s probably useless … to define her … things that are clear … but also unclear.
The sexual energy … dominates everything from beyond reality.
She does not say anything … and actually don’t do anything … but her deep desire of being admired by everyone … controls … all.
I just continue being into a story …. which i like a lot … but i am also understanding that our connection is not everything.”
I was listening to my friend … and liked all those perceptions.
… he probably understood… he could not change anything at all.
He loved their love story … adore this amazing lady … but also accepted it’s useless to bother to … delete … her sexual magnetism.
It was a game … an illusory one … but she adored … dominating everyone around.
Well … maybe till one day when she will realize … that her lover had enough … and just disappeared without saying a word.
psychological games in relationships
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